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Shattering Eight Myths About Grief

Myth 1:

Reality:

We only grieve deaths.

We grieve all losses.

Myth 2:

Reality:

Only family members grieve.

All who are attached grieve.

Myth 3:

Reality:

Grief is an emotional reaction.

Grief is manifested in many ways.

Myth 4:

Reality:

Individuals should leave grieving at home.

We cannot control where we grieve.

Myth 5:

Reality:

We slowly and predictably recover from grief.

Grief is an uneven process, a roller coaster with no timeline.

Myth 6:

Reality:

Grieving means letting go of the person who has died.

We never fully detach.

Myth 7:

Reality:

Grief finally ends.

Over time most people learn to live with loss.

Myth 8:

Reality:

Grievers are best left alone.

Grievers need opportunities to share their memories and grief, and to receive support.

 

 

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